Dad's Notes

Being a Great Dad for Children

Who wants to be a daddy here? You may not have a child yet, but soon you will. Although you don’t want it but certainly you’ll have one. Prepare yourself to taking care of your child. Being a dad is not always smooth. You will have to make well-planned preparation and good mentality to be a great dad for your son or daughter.

Being a Great Dad for Child’s Growth

What will be felt when having a baby? It absolutely will make you feel perplexed and happy. As a dad, you want to be a good one for your kids. You want to carry them on your shoulders. You will give your kids anything you have as your affection. There’s nothing to be afraid of because you can do these following things.

Don’t Afraid of Being a Great Dad

Being a dad is not about carrying the baby or knowing how to help the baby burp. Being a good dad is started with being a good husband. It starts with involving yourself in the entire prenatal processes. If you really want to be a great dad, you must be a good husband first because a good husband must be a great dad.

Give Mom Space to Break

Since the baby’s birth, a lot of parents totally freak out and don’t leave their house for a long time because they’re afraid of what might happen to the baby. After a few weeks, go out and start to return to you and your wife’s normal routine as possible.

Dad is as important as mom. Being a mommy also is a much harder job than being a daddy. That’s why it’s so important to give mommy many breaks. She needs break time, but she’s so strictly in being a mom, so perhaps she won’t have time enough to take care of herself. The best thing you can do is make her take breaks.

Help Mom Take Care of Child

It’s important to do. When the baby starts crying for food or another thing in the morning, help your wife. Accompany her to take care of your child. It also takes into account feeding baby in the night. There are many immediate businesses on caring child in the night. You’ll know how to be. Sometimes it will be hard because you have to share parts with your wife to take care of your child.

Treat Kids Lovely

Be affectionately with your baby, especially as they get older. Kids need love but don’t understand the word “love” yet. If you hold your baby and say “I love you”, it’s meaningless. The love isn’t like that. The love is when you know what kids do understand. Hugging them, snuggling them, and kissing them make them feel what true love is.

It’s a basic way humans communicate love, but some dads feel awkward in showing love in this way. Be equal to show your love to your kids. Express your love freely and fairly. Being a dad is not an easy matter but you must give the best attention to your kids. You are their model, so they hope they can become like you.

 

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Josh Willink from Pexels

A husband. A dad. A bank worker. Loves to share in writing about the art of being a dad for the kids.

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